Do couples sit next to each other at weddings?
Mia Moss
Published Jan 21, 2026
For long rectangular or banquet-style tables, couples traditionally sit opposite one another – but you can seat them side-by-side if you prefer. It's up to you. The only couples at a wedding that don't usually sit together are the maid of honour and her partner, and the best man and his partner.
Should couples sit together at weddings?
The bride and groom have the option to sit a sweetheart's table together or at a bridal party table with all members of the bridal party sitting together. Some couples also opt to sit a table with the Best Man, Maid/Matron of Honor, their parents and their grandparents.Does it matter where you sit at a wedding?
According to tradition, the bride's side is to the left of the aisle when facing the altar, while the groom's side is to the right. If you don't have a preference for where to sit, you can fill in an empty seat on either side of the aisle.Do parents from both sides sit together at a wedding?
Traditionally, the parents all sit at the same reception table, along with siblings not in the wedding party, the officiant and his or her spouse (if they attend the reception) and any grandparents.Who should sit next to who wedding?
Traditionally, the newlyweds sit in the middle of the table, with the bride seated to the groom's right. Same-sex couples can feel free to seat themselves as they'd like. For a male/female pattern around the table, seat the best man next to the bride and the maid of honor next to the groom.Seating Etiquette: Should COUPLES sit ACROSS from EACH OTHER?
How do you seat a couple at a wedding?
Always seat couples at the same table. Anyone who is married, engaged, in a long-term relationship or has brought a date has the right to sit with their partner. If you're having round or square tables, try to seat couples next to one another.Do bridesmaids bring a date?
The demands of being a bridesmaid will keep you away from your guest for a fair amount of time, so it's not a good venue to test a new relationship. Likewise, you'll be surrounded by girlfriends, so there's no chance you'll feel left out without a date.Where does everyone sit at a wedding?
At a traditional, formal Christian wedding or a large civil ceremony, the bride's family and friends are seated on the left and the groom's on the right. Mark off the first few rows with flowers or ribbon as seating for immediate family and special guests, as labeled below.Who sits at the front row at the wedding?
You would seat the divorced mom in the front row with her new spouse, if remarried, and her immediate family would sit in the first one or two rows behind her. The father would sit behind those family members after walking his daughter down the aisle.Does the mother of the bride sit on the aisle?
Traditional Christian Wedding Processional OrderThe Bride's Mother: The mother of the bride's entrance signals that the processional is about to begin. Once they reach the end of the aisle, they take their seat to the left of the aisle in the first row.